This speech up here by Emotional Intelligence Expert, Oyinkansola Alabi aka Emotions Doctor, says a lot and states some of the reasons why people are usually not objective about an abusive or troubled marriage.
They see marriage as a DO OR DIE affair!
While marriage takes a lot of work, it is sweeter when you and your spouse are both on the same page and your values align.
Even the Bible says can two walk together except they agree?
When abuse is involved and the marriage is more of endurance than enjoyment, then there is a BIG PROBLEM!
And yes, some of these kind of marriages can be worked on with thorough counselling and therapy with professionals.....emphasis on PROFESSIONALS who are people trained to handle such issues not necessarily pastors, religious elders or state governors.
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